RIP Gabby Petito

 There's an urgent need for painful self reflection. After having a variant of ugly shaming and watching the very talented being demeaned by personality disordered hate mongers; after only allowing one voice, out of millions, to be heard- only one cry for help, out of millions, to be taken to heart- only one death, out of millions, to be acted upon, it's time for painful self reflection. It's time for only wanting the best for others. It's incalculable how many have killed themselves and/or others over refusing to self reflect. It's important to be direct when voicing the truth about oneself. Handing blame to others only gets you so far. With adulthood comes responsibility for our actions and owning up to our downfalls. With adulthood comes working with spirit and self reflection. With adulthood comes painful victories and rewarding changes in our behavior and our life. Only by urgently needed self reflection can we change this variant of ugly shaming and create a safe place for all. RIP Gabby Petito.